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What should I do when my 4 year old child does not listen to me when I request even for brushing his teeth, taking bath, watching TV from distance etc daily habits he tests my patience and if i become angry he backfires and becomes stubborn.

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Please don't expect discipline in a 4 year old child and pls don't insist so much on obedience. Instead create an atmosphere of fun/play in which the child deliberately makes the desired action.
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Our child is probably going through a late two-year old issue. Apart from setting reasonable boundaries that he can relate to please a play-way ,method of getting him to do things i.e. make it a fun thing rather than a chore. He is actually testing your boundaries. If you lose it, he, the four year old,...
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Our child is probably going through a late two-year old issue. Apart from setting reasonable boundaries that he can relate to please a play-way ,method of getting him to do things i.e. make it a fun thing rather than a chore. He is actually testing your boundaries. If you lose it, he, the four year old, wins! Punishment is not at all recommended at this age, ever. read less
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Take out his most favorite thing from his room. This trick is called negative reinforcement. Don't respond to his tantrums. Be ignorant. You will not get results if you cry or respond to him.
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Hi Parveen, there could be many reason why your son is not listening you, first you need to ensure the most important thing that "DO YOU DO WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM YOUR CHILD?" this seems a very easy question but the result can give you a big shock, because our children learn from our behaviour only, primarily....
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Hi Parveen, there could be many reason why your son is not listening you, first you need to ensure the most important thing that "DO YOU DO WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM YOUR CHILD?" this seems a very easy question but the result can give you a big shock, because our children learn from our behaviour only, primarily. Keep trying what you are doing but keeping in mind that your are not being rude to him.Spanking and being rude can amplify the situation, so have patience and be positive about your approach.Keep your anger in control or else your are teaching the same behaviour to your child also, may be you don't have intention to do so. Parveen to make your child what you want, you need to be the same infront of him.If you are doing all good things at home then don't worry, keep doing that, one day your child will learn for sure. read less
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Train the child using the pleasure/Pain principle , when the child listens to you reward and pat and put in a suggestion of what he should do next(or what you want him/her to do ) . Reinforcement of positive behaviour. When he/she doesn't listen, you sit and listen , what is the actual pain point...
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Train the child using the pleasure/Pain principle , when the child listens to you reward and pat and put in a suggestion of what he should do next(or what you want him/her to do ) . Reinforcement of positive behaviour. When he/she doesn't listen, you sit and listen , what is the actual pain point or whats beneath the tantrum. what is the real need of the child under the mask of tantrum. half game is won if you know what ur child is exactly feeling inside. read less
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Ignore him/her and continue to do your works, stop talking.he/she will soon understand that what he/she is doing is not accepted by you.
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Remember the school punishes..hold ears and do sit ups.. Cross ur hands and hold ears and both u and child can do it as fun. Scientifically it helps mind in focusing..try out
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Hi Parveen, we do provide behavioral training for kids if you are interested kindly do contact us.
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Patience dad. ?Be consistent with your instructions then if he doesn't do what you are asking him to do , you do it for him as if he is doing it. Seeing your calmness and consistency, kid will be surprised and will gradually learn to behave in the way you want. Be firm, without losing your head. All...
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Patience dad. ?Be consistent with your instructions then if he doesn't do what you are asking him to do , you do it for him as if he is doing it. Seeing your calmness and consistency, kid will be surprised and will gradually learn to behave in the way you want. Be firm, without losing your head. All the best, after all he is only 4 years, give him some more time to evolve. read less
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Dear Mr. Praveen, child should be educated for one doubt... i.e.... " WHY"
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