0Hello Students, I teach how to become a go-getter and get what you want in your life. In fact I am more of a coach & trainer than a teacher. I train you psychology to take up the psychoogy of winner. It is about how you see life is what makes the difference between who lives the life of dream and one who just keep thinking about it and can actually never live. This is one of my article to tell you how actually I try to bring change in my students's life.
How Do You See The Problem
What do you think life is all about? Do you think it is the materials? All the people who have created anything in this world was actually solving a problem. So life is about solving your problem. Now better a problem solver you are better you are in handling life. A person is a great business man if he is a problem solver. The same person will become inventor if his/her solution does not exist in world. Steve Jobs had a problem with the way computers were made. He felt that computers should be more easy to use and must bring convenience in the lifestyle when is used. He said that people who seek beauty & perfection, who understand art will get mad with the piece of art we are making. And he made a product like that. Apple is a lifestyle in itself. When you are not satisfied and have a hint in your head that what is it you are looking instead, and a drive to just make it happen, can make all the difference. This is about product, we are seeing day by day services are getting extremely better and who are the people who are doing this? People who knows what a good service means and find a way to create it not just for themselves but for everyone, so that the standard shifts collectively. You there is a difference between people who changed the world and those who stacked money just for themselves. Both envisioned improving lifestyle but then one did it for the whole world and the other did just for themselves. People who changed the world, see the people who are like them and they have a tendency to connect to them. They know that fulfilling just their own life doesn’t feel all. But then why? Because they see themselves in every other person who feels like them and they think that if someone like me would have helped me I could have saved so much of sleepless nights worrying and going paranoid. And that is true about every profession you come across. I am sure you must have heard about Tony Robbins, he is a life coach and if you will see his work, you will find that there is a spark in his work. Why is he so crazy about his work? Because he see himself in every other person in need. And more he makes them satisfied more satisfied he feel. You can only make products and services for people like you, because you can only put your 100% in the products and services which you feel for. So, whenever you face a problem, then be sure that it has been presented to you as I you can do something about it. Many people don’t even see that there is any improvement needed but then you see a better picture. So use your standards to raise the standards of collective. See what I am saying is very simple- We in India know that hotel bookings was a nightmare in 90s, as you don’t know which one is reliable and then they heavily charge you, after reaching there you don’t get what you were promised and what not; somebody realized this and said this is not my standard and came up with OYO Rooms, now he has not just made it convenient for himself but solved the problem of millions of people. Your standard is therefore an asset and don’t let them out via nagging and complaining, see if you can do something to change it and make it better because if you can do so you won’t just make things convenient or yourself but for a lot of people. Life is about connecting in some way or other. It is about saying this is how life should be and someone saying I think the same. Or this how life is, what do you think? Think for a moment movies, books, talks, products, services what are they doing? They are asking you this is what I believe, do you also believe the same. And at the end you say that “hey, I believe once you will try this you will also start liking it”. Now tell me do we buy from everyone? No, because when we have options we buy product and emotion as well. If you have two Grocery shop and both have same quality products but then one gives you a smile at the counter and the other one just do it mechanically, which one from you will buy your products? From the first one, because we don’t just buy products we buy emotions as well. We cannot solve all the problems by ourselves and therefore we choose to depend on people who are solving some of the problems for all of us. Choosing to drive for 8 kms to buy groceries over the one next to your house just because you feel that shop has better standards, shows how you pick good in your life. But then if somebody is solving some of our problems, we must also create a work which people feel solved their problem as well & that is how we must operate. Don’t make peace with your problem, rather fix it with your kind of work. You will end up connecting automatically with people.
