Answers and conclusions stop you from recieving. A question opens up make many answers and guides you to handle a situation. Do not ask 'why this is happening?'. Always be in the question to get an answer:
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What else in possible?
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What will it take to change this?
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What choice do I have?
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What is so right about this that I am not getting?
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How does it get better than this?