Manoj Chakerwarti

I have recently moved to mumbai . My daughter is studying in RN Poddar school. She looks to be having lack of confidence . How can get expert guidance to improve her confidence

Hello Ajit, As your daughter is in school, please check whether she is fully equipped with the resources she expects from you. Are you spending enough time with her and encourage the activities what all she shares with you. Even if she she wrong on some activity make her understand in such a way that she should not feel like neglected or insulted by any means. Try your level best on this aspect and still she in not coming out of this please call on my mobile, me , my wife and my sister in law will give online counseling free of cost for her better growth and prospects.

Dear Sateeshkumar, Soft Skills are inbuilt. This is not only the way you speak of talk to others but it includes your interpersonal behavior too. You should make yourself very strong in your communication skills - make eye contact first and then start talking. your body language plays a major role in soft skills, the pace you speak and your voice level, your body language and the way you express your feeling are all the different parts of your soft skills. Practice this by talking four strangers in a day of four different age groups. 5-25, 25-45, 45-65, and above 65 years of age. Check your ability how well you can handle these group persons, automatically your soft skills will start improving, you will have control on your behavior and action. Still have problem, call on my mobile: Manoj Chakerwarti

Hello Dear Mukul Lack of Confidence is the major reason for nervousness and that is your weakness. This lacking is not only restricted to Interview but it is in all your activities. There is no segmentation of confidence/nervousness that this is for interview, this is for games, and this is for relationship and son. To build your confidence increase your knowledge, meet one stranger every day and talk with him and make him friend, this is one exercise you should do will teach you how to start conversation with unknown party and unknown topic. Always maintain eye-contact when you talk if you want to win the situation. Introduce yourself with only key points. Maintain your body posture and give proper handshake; your handshake itself gives feel to the opponent your level of confidence. Hand-shake should be firm and L-Shaped and not a fish handshake. Still you feel like you need more on this you may contact me on mobile: (Vadodara-Gujarat) as I have already given training on Interview Skills and Group Discussion to Final Year BE-Mechanical Students of MS University and they got great success in that. Good Luck

Hello Dear Biswas Lack of Confidence is the major weakness. This lacking is not only restricted to Interview but it is in all your activities. There is no segmentation of confidence that this is for interview, this is for games, and this is for relationship and son. To build your confidence increase your knowledge, meet one stranger every day and talk with him and make him friend, this is one exercise you should do will teach you how to start conversation with unknown party and unknown topic. Always maintain eye-contact when you talk if you want to win the situation. Introduce yourself with only key points. Maintain your body posture and give proper handshake; your handshake itself gives feel to the opponent your level of confidence. Hand-shake should be firm and L-Shaped and not a fish handshake. Still you feel like you need more on this you may contact me. (Vadodara-Gujarat) as I have already given training on Interview Skills and Group Discussion to Final Year BE-Mechanical Students of MS University and they got great success in that. Good Luck

First of all you make yourself very clear about your weakness. Are you weak in communication or in English Language? Both are different and to be handled differently. To communicate with anybody, you need not to have expertise in any language because Communication is: Verbal The words we use 7% The tone we use 13% Non-Verbal Body Language 80% A commonly accepted scenario is that communication between people is usually comprised of the words used (7%), the way words are used or stressed, e.g. tone, emotions (13%) and body language (80%) Start reading newspaper and in that read only local news which you know this has happened - may be the same news available in some local newspaper in the language you know and understand. This practice will give you direct conversation of contents. Never read political news because it is difficult to understand their terminology. Start talking to yourself in English and listen others those who speak simple English. Definitely you will get through with this problem within 30 days. Good Luck