Raj Hans

Hi,

There is a comprehensive and varied segment of the word 'Skills'. The first thing is knowing which skill you want to develop. And then how, when, where comes. There are four steps, simple yet toiling for whatever you want to develop!!! :

1. Know Yourself Honestly:  Be true to yourself and ask yourself about self. Know what you have, what you want and what do you aspire. Know your true self honestly deeper than what you pretend to be, what you are true. When you ask yourself, you will learn what your remainders and challenges are. It is the easiest to say the most difficult step yet to understand and know yourself honestly. It requires courage.

2. Find Opportunity: If you are grown up of more than 20 in this internet savvy age, you might already know where to find it. These days everything is available on Videos, articles, websites, online books and in your relationship circle. Some require time, some money. If you have the dedication, you will find it. It will tell you what to do, mostly.

3. Practice: No matter how much you know, you will only develop and grow any skill when you practice it and apply it. More and again. Analysing, checking, correcting, repeating it again. It requires grit, dedication, efforts, perseverance and honest analysis. Overcoming your own doubts and your own comfort zone.

4. Sustain: Even if you develop a skill, doesn't guarantee you possess it. You have to repeat and apply it regularly, even if not frequently. To get it absorbed in your subconscious mind like riding a bicycle. One thing you can surely learn from learning a skill like cycling is that you learn the fastest and the most when you pleasure all your senses with it. Like in cycling you enjoy the combined experience of the sound, your shouts, the adventure of feeling wind, the scene of you speeding, the smell of achieving perspiration and adrenaline rush inside as one single event. That gives you a sense of accomplishment and achievement and instils in your grey cells permanently.